A few years ago, I wrote a column titled, “The most valuable gift can be the gift of time.” Those words have stayed with me, and as the Thanksgiving season reminds us to reflect on gratitude, they feel more relevant than ever.
Like many, I started this year reflecting on my purpose. What brings me joy? What leaves me feeling fulfilled? Beyond the obvious answers of family, friends and my dogs, I realized that what truly makes me happy is helping others. This year, I’ve learned that the gift of giving — whether through time, energy or resources — has an immeasurable impact, both on others and on ourselves. How can we express that gratitude in meaningful ways? How can we turn thankfulness into action?
Giving thanks through action
When we think about giving, we often focus on what we have to offer others. But in my experience, the act of giving gives back to us in ways we don’t always expect. Volunteering has shown me how much I have to be thankful for and how even small efforts can make a big difference.
This season, I’m especially grateful for the opportunity to support organizations that strengthen our community. From working with Whispering Horse Therapeutic Riding Center to joining the Spirit of Springfield and YWCA of Western Massachusetts’ Boards of Directors, every volunteer experience has deepened my appreciation for the people who dedicate their lives to helping others.
One cause particularly close to my heart this holiday season is Toy for Joy, a 102-year-old charity that provides toys and books to over 3,700 children in need in the Springfield area alone. It’s a beautiful reminder that even small gestures can spark joy and create lasting memories.
Reflecting on gratitude and purpose
Thanksgiving is more than a meal or a day off work — it’s a chance to reflect on what truly matters. This year, I’ve found purpose in giving back and am grateful for the fulfillment it brings. Helping others has shifted my perspective, reminding me of the richness of my own life and the power of community.
As I’ve discovered, giving doesn’t have to be grand or complicated. It can be as simple as volunteering an hour a week — even an hour a month — donating to a cause or mentoring someone. Every act of generosity, no matter how small, creates a ripple effect that strengthens our connections and reminds us of what we have to be thankful for.
How you can give thanks this season
This Thanksgiving, I encourage you to consider how you can turn your gratitude into action:
Volunteer your time: Local nonprofits often need extra hands, especially during the holiday season.
Give to those in need: Whether it’s donating to Toy for Joy or supporting a local food pantry, your contribution makes a difference.
Extend kindness: Invite someone who may be alone to join your Thanksgiving celebration or deliver a meal to a neighbor.
What are you thankful for?
As we gather around the table this Thanksgiving, it’s a good time to think about what really matters and what we’re most grateful for. Beyond the turkey and pie, what kind of impact do you want to leave behind?
In a season all about giving and gratitude, it’s worth asking: how can we show thanks in ways that go beyond words? Maybe it’s by lending a hand to someone in need, sharing what we have or just being present for those who could use a little kindness.
When we take the time to give, we don’t just help others — we also remind ourselves of what’s most important.
That’s something to be truly thankful for.
